College Planning

Move-In Day

Packing lists, logistics, and tender guidance for the big goodbye.

The essentials to pack

  • Bedding — extra-long twin sheets, a comforter, and a mattress topper.
  • Bath — towels, a shower caddy, and flip-flops for shared bathrooms.
  • Storage — bins, drawer organizers, and command hooks.
  • Tech — laptop, chargers, a power strip, and a small fan.
  • Everyday — a basic first-aid kit, laundry supplies, and a few kitchen items.

Logistics that save the day

01

Confirm your time slot

Many schools assign move-in windows — arrive early to beat the rush.

02

Pack the car smart

Load in reverse order so the first items out are what you set up first.

03

Ship ahead if allowed

Send bulky or non-fragile items to campus to lighten the trip.

04

Have a tool kit

A screwdriver, tape, scissors, and zip ties solve most dorm surprises.

05

Buy locals last

Grab bulky basics near campus instead of hauling them across the country.

The goodbye

  • Follow their lead on how long to stay.
  • Say the thing you want them to remember, then let go.
  • Plan the first call or visit so the parting has a next chapter.
  • It's okay to cry in the car — this is love, changing shape.

Love, changing shape

The goodbye is hard because it mattered. You raised them for this — and the relationship keeps growing from here.

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